most common mindset blocks to getting visible

Mindset blocks can prevent you from being visible

When it comes to getting visible in business (i.e., putting yourself out there and sharing about your work), one of the biggest blocks can be your own mindset.

But first, a refresher: What does “mindset” actually mean?

The definition of “mindset” is: (n). A set of beliefs that shape how you make sense of the world and yourself. It influences how you think, feel, and behave in any given situation.

The easiest way to think your mindset is your thoughts and beliefs. (These are, of course, also related to your feelings about visibility, more on that later.)

First, let’s discuss the most common mindset blocks to visibility — and how you can address them, so you can show up more confidently in your work and in your life.

First, what is visibility?

Before we dive into the mindset blocks that might stand in the way of you being visible professionally or personally, let’s talk about what visibility really means.

Visibility is the act of putting your real, authentic self out there and allowing yourself to be seen, whatever the consequences. Being seen is a normal human desire that all of us have. 

When people are hiring us to be their guides, teachers, coaches, and healers, it’s important that we, as practitioners, are willing and able to show up and be seen, so that we can fulfill our purpose and mission. 

being visible means being vulnerable

Why mindset blocks arise when it’s time to be seen

Your mindset (aka your thoughts and beliefs) those impact everything you do in life and business. Most of the time, these thoughts are operating in our subconscious, without us even realizing.

There are a few reasons why visibility mindset blocks are so common:

1. Being visible means being vulnerable.

When you are a coach, healer or other service-based entrepreneur where YOU are providing the services, visibility is required.

That’s because YOU are the one clients are signing up to work with.

In order to attract those clients, you want to establish trust and credibility. The way you do that is through being visible.

2. Being visible brings up fears of being seen.

For many of us, especially sensitive, introvert entrepreneurs, struggle with being seen. We may fear rejection, be self-conscious, or take on the energy of others.

The thing to realize that the fear of being seen is a common one.

Getting visible, whether that’s on social media, at a networking event, or even on a consult call, can bring these fears to the surface. But these fears can and should be addressed.

3. Being visible means opening yourself up to judgment and potential ridicule.

One of the main concerns my clients have when it comes to social media is that they fear being judged or being “wrong” or dealing with people who may disagree with them.

These concerns can stop us from showing up all together.

In a public arena, judgment is rampant. But instead of focusing on trolls or those who disagree with you, why not focus on those who can benefit from what you share?

5 common visibility mindset blocks

These are the 5 most common mindset blocks to getting visible that I see in my work with clients. Read the list and see if any sound familiar to you.

Visibility block #1: Imposter syndrome

Have you ever wondered: Who am I to do this?

Imposter syndrome is the feeling that you’re a fraud, that you’re going to be found out at any moment, that you don’t belong.

I often see impostor syndrome with new entrepreneurs or those who are leveling up.

Imposter syndrome is a mindset block because if you believe the thought (“I’m not worthy”), you’re not going to feel worthy, or take actions that align with your worth, and you’re not going to see the results in your business.

Visibility block #2: Comparing yourself to others

Ever pop on social media and a few minutes later, you believe that everyone appears to be more successful or happier than you?

Yep, this is comparisonitis (a word in the dictionary now!)

When comparing kicks in, you lose sight of the motivation to share a post or engage with potential clients, and you log off, feeling dejected.

Comparisonitis is a mindset block, because when you have the (false) belief that everyone is doing it better than you, you feel bad about yourself, and you don’t take actions to grow your business.

Visibility block #3: Perfectionism

How much time do you spend on a single social media post? If you agonize over the photos, the copy, the font, spending time to make it “perfect,” you could be wasting valuable time you could use to actually connect with clients.

I’m no stranger to being a perfectionist, but it’s not always a great quality in business!

Perfectionism is a mindset block because it can make you think that something (everything) needs to be “perfect” before you can put it out there. (Spoiler alert: It will never be perfect!)

Visibility block #4: Debilitating fear of criticism

It’s human to be afraid of criticism and judgment.

But also realize that people spend a lot less time thinking about YOU than you think!

Being afraid of criticism or rejection can hold you back from putting yourself out there altogether, which means you don’t connect with those who most need what you have to offer.

Fear of criticism (which is usually fear of being able to handle criticism) becomes a mindset block when it causes you to stall out and hide out, instead of show up.

Visibility block #5: Taking the results personally

If you take every unfollow, unsubscribe, or client who doesn’t sign up as a personal failure, you’re going to have a difficult time weathering the ups and downs of entrepreneurship. The truth is, any metric in business is  just information until you assign meaning to it.

Taking the results personally is a mindset block because you’re interpreting it to mean something is “wrong” with you, which affects your self-confidence and self-belief.

Instead, focus on raising your self-worth and detaching from the outcome. The results don’t have to mean anything about you.

if you don't show up your ideal clients can't find you

Mindset blocks aren’t the only thing standing in your way of being seen

While mindset arguably plays a big role in anything we do, in work and in life, mindset is not the ONLY thing that matters.

The nervous system also plays a major role in visibility. If your nervous system doesnt feel safe, it’s going to make “putting yourself out there” feel terrifying and extremely dysregulating.

Doing nervous system regulation work in tandem with mindset work allows you to approach both key aspects of visibility. When your mind AND your body are on board with being visible, you are basically unstoppable. 

How to overcome mindset blocks to being visible

When it comes to being seen, it’s super common to be faced with any of the mindset blocks above, simply because we’re human. 

The key is addressing  these visibility mindset blocks, so you can build your resilience and  show up, even when you don’t feel like it

The good news is, that once you address these blocks, it makes showing up and getting visible in your business so much easier, both in your work and in your life!

Your mindset is only a piece of the puzzle 

When it comes to visibility, your mindset is only one piece of the puzzle. It plays a big role, but so does how safe you feel in being visible, how aligned you are with your purpose and intention, and how confident you are in sharing. 

This is one reason I created the SHINE Visibility Method™, my proprietary framework for authentic, nervous-system-informed visibility. The framework integrates nervous system safety, mindset, energy management, purpose, authentic self-expression, and practical visibility strategies so you can show up with more ease and confidence.

No matter what mindset blocks (or other factors) are playing a role in getting visible, you can work through them and come out the other side. 

 

Ready to conquer your visibility blocks?

If you’re ready to move through your visibility mindset blocks and learn nervous system steps to feel safe being seen, there’s a program that can help.

Show Up and Shine® can help you feel safe and comfortable being seen, so you can show up as your authentic self and do the work you were meant to do.

To learn more, click the link below.